Peed by a bunch of dinosaurs

Every person in this strange world has had the feeling of walking under a grey cloud when bad things subsequently happen. In other words, at least once in our lives (being a lucky person) we have to go through a stream of unfortunate events which may either strengthen or beat us.

Whenever these periods occur, we tend to experience disappointment, desperation, frustration and many other negative feelings which seem to be endless. The point is that we have to be as positive as possible for not trying to abandon every thing in which we are involved. During these periods, the best thing to do is to wait. Wait and hang-on until its end. Of course, these words flow easily, but the facts show differences in criteria. Some people are more patient than others. Some are calmer, some are stronger.

From time to time, we have to test our strength by getting up when we fall, without help. If this is well done, our spirit is strengthen, our self-confidence is raised and our willingness to go on facing challenges is at its highest peak.

However, if this is rather difficult, we can have a sense of defeat and thwarting which might be as bad as to lead us to a deep depression syndrome. When this happens, the best way out is to consult with a specialist. Sometimes we can overcome from depression only with our own efforts, but when this illness becomes a pathological thing...it's useless to try getting better by ourselves.

It's not for cowards or weak people to go to a psychologist. It's quite the opposite. We need a humongous strength to accept that we need help, that we're not powerful persons who can solve every problem with our bare hands.

As I said before, the best thing we can do to confront these black time spans is to wait. After all, nothing is forever, and if you belive in God...He will never send you somehing you cannot bear. Everything has its measure, and the main goal, is to help us grow up, emotionally and psychologically. Everyone has to live these seasons of loneliness and sadness to feel better, and value the important things more often. Basically, we don't pay much attention to our health, our loving ones, and our many posesions. It seems that it's never enough, which can be good if this doesn't mean that we don't enjoy every positive thing we have, due to the grieve that cause us what we don't have yet.

In these moments in which we feel that we were rudely peed by a bunch of dinosaurs, we have to bear in mind all the good things that we have, and find the strength to go on in all the people that haven't abandon us yet.

Be patient and enjoy the ride.