Friend's day

For many years I've had many possibilities during friend's day to go to parties. I don't know if I'm too old for parties, or my life has turned into a different thing, but I prefer the quietness of having only one possibility to go out.

These year I've decided to enjoy that day with my closest friends from school. They have become my pillars for the last years, and if we are lucky enough, we won't be seeing each other every day next year.

I've been pleased to spend the evening with them. I didn't want anything else. Even when I received other invitations for bigger celebrations, I really wanted to be with them. They are like my little brother and sisters. They are always there for me when I'm about to freak out, and I'm always worrying about their well being. We share a careful concern towards each other. We know for sure that we can find in the other, a willing shoulder to lean on when needed.

We are good friends...

We share many things...

Sometimes we do not agree with each other, but show respect in every step of our way. We are respectful of each other's personal space.

Respectful of personal space...

I've always said that this is the real basis of our friendship, of our brotherhood. We are not invaders or intruders who want to be 100% of the time with the other. We are like one, but without losing our individuality. Each of us has his or her life, his or her duties, his or her need to be alone...and we are respectful. For example, we don't burst into Chezik's place just because she lives near school. If it's not agreed on, or really necessary, we don't go there. I'm the one that has more possibilities to go whenever I want, but I have my house, and that's HER place. Why should I spread my "roots" there and be an interference in her everyday lifestyle?

Of course, we have our differences, but I don't remember having big arguments with any of them. We had our little conflicts, but none of them were as important as to break our bonds.

Once more, thank you my friends!!!!

I'm living this last period of the year with the anxiety you already know, but having you by my side is the relaxing pill that I need. I hope my angst doesn't bother you that much.

Love you!!!

Kisses and hugs